"How do you tell someone they're not a good kisser?"

he said, and continued "we've been going out since forever, she'll be ever so mad if I were to tell her now!"

I was talking to my friend. He and his girlfriend have been together for years. He told me he'd been well known for his kisses in his time. I said I'd take his word for it...

"It's not that I don't like kissing her, but it's somehow all tongue, no lips. Passion, but no feeling... If I tell her now, though, she'll think I haven't been enjoying our time together. But I have! And if I don't tell her, well, nothing has changed... But sometimes I think it could have been even better."

I didn't have any advice. I understood his thinking. I'd probably be put off too, if my hubby'd told me there's been something missing all these years... Anyone know a way around this?